—u/MaybeAWalrus “You didn’t magically become an adult at 21. You were already legally an adult since 18, you just gained the ability to legally drink. Your friend is not a child, she’s legally recognized as an adult, just as you are. She’s just acting like more of one than you are right now.” —u/glitchandgo
—u/seeker7628
“If you were having a child-free wedding, Mel would be invited. You’re not doing that, and as a result, you’re excluding exactly one person from your friend group because you apparently don’t even trust her enough to say, ‘Please don’t drink at my wedding because I don’t want to deal with any liabilities around underage drinking.’” —u/peepingtomatoes —u/Fianna9 —u/fullsends “Your ‘friend’ isn’t allowed because of her age? And you think she doesn’t have a right to be mad? There is no logical argument or explanation you can make that would change my mind. If I was the rest of the ‘friends,’ I wouldn’t go as a show of solidarity. You’re a bridezilla.” —u/IndependentBid1854
