“I remember being on a first date with a beautiful woman and I made a bit of corny joke or comment and she laughed at it. I remember thinking, ‘Damn, wait till I get to my good stuff.’ I did get to my good material apparently as we were married. She gives me as many laughs as I give her.” —u/CarlJustCarl “My husband says this doesn’t turn him on but was very important in why he found me attractive overall. Some bad thing would happen and I would just take it in stride. A piece broke off my car as I was driving and I just gently eased it over to the side. He still talks about how impressed he was by it. He says it’s because of something he read in a book about survival. How in many worst-case survival scenarios people make their situations worse by becoming emotional and thus making poor decisions based on that response. But those who kept calm tended to make good logical decisions and their outcomes trended toward the positive.” —u/IWorldBuildTooMuch
